Tuesday, December 8, 2015

doubt vs certainty

Doubt vs certainty a constant battle we sometimes mentally engage with not only within our minds but sometimes within the depths of our souls. We constantly ask the question when we should push forth and battle with the ideology of whether or not our push to move forth is really in the end worth it. We linger with our suspicions of what's we feel is internally right and what we perceive as being wrong, at times even getting in our own way toi the path of our own mental salvation.
Our doubt sets our limitation of expectations and at times setting the barrier to our true unlimited potential. Our certainty while at times beneficial can be misdirected in our wishful prosperous conquest. Knowing when to properly use the two can be a very difficult task as both can serve as a benefit or a disadvantage in finding the proper path or just making the right decision. Both can be very useful but serve their purpose best when used at the right time. Doubt can bring about hesitation, worry and an inherent fear to simply proceed onward. What counteracts that is a relevant certainty that once attained trains us to jump life's many hurdles, to relinquish our fears when found adopted into a proven doubt, and catapults our courage into the forefront to acheive what was thought to be challenging, impossible or just plain risky helping us to confidently  proceed onward towards our goals or life agendas.
Doubt however can provide a beneficial flip side to it's importance as well, serving as our perfectly provided emotional compas of what is truly right or conclusively wrong sometimes managing to be correct in it's assumptions, all the while our certainty to no fault of our own may be an unjust one, do to life's consistence in changing up the script to our lives. It is more beneficial however to our own human growth and our continued evolution to have more certainty than doubt, as it is our certainty that frees us, leads to the useful path that we deep down within our selves know that we both require and undoubtedly request. It can also be the mental and emotional force that pushes a sometimes eluded belief to the forefront all while helping us in the much needed salvation to our much needed mental freedom.  through self certainty we triumph over the initiated stance of fear fabricated by doubt, where our now suddenly formed strength found within ourselves dictates our outcomes more often than not setting us to prosper instead of conclusive doubt and fear doing so for us where it more often then sets us up to simply fail, as certainty does a much better job in pushing us forward more so than doubt which can only triumph in it's conquest of holding us back. 

Thursday, November 5, 2015

Kindness

The benefit of being nice can truly have a very profound impact in one's emotional resonance and positve attitude. What I mean by this is you can really make someone's mood change and internal spirit lift by doing the good things that some of us can at times take for granted. We have the ability to possess kindness and generosity and spread that outward to those around us especially to those who need  it most. Through our warmth we introduce others to a generous compassion that when delivered to others can be an intoxicating form of activated bliss towards one's emotional state, helping us as well to portray our own human existence to a prosperous glorified light.
The act of kindness brightens our external glow and can awaken others hidden happiness not always displayed, maybe even helping others parley that into positive actions towards others. Through a kind act and through  kind words we ourselves shine in the best way possible, and it is that special glow coming from the goodness of our exhibited human nature that gives it it's magnetic beauty, gorgeous enough to have others yearning to shine just as brightly and have their set being perfectly portraying that essential importance, all while magnifying the true depth of our sometimes hidden individual human greatness. 
With kindness we spread love, happiness, joy, and an appreciation for others just like us, at times empowering those us around us, benefiting their emotional stance and given the circumstance in which we uplift someone else we may also benefit a neccesary beneficial self outlook that may have otherwise been complely unapparent to one's needed self appreciation. If you have to power to be kind why not use it you may just be making someone's day, pulling them out of an emotional rut and empowering their own self view portrayed external through a positive emotional view whether it be through a smile or an acknowledgement of their realized appreciation with a thank you.  We have the power the enforce positive means of contention among other see the beauty and optimism that not everybody may find and bless those with the power to see the true value that a human existence can showcase, and provide the value of a consitently needed emotional lift that renders people to a better emotional state, all of which done through the simple act of pure kindness, which to me makes the simple act of genuinely being kind very much worth it in the end.

Monday, November 2, 2015

Memories

Memories their sometimes profound, insightful, and at times very meaningful in our existence.We all have them and they come in two forms the good memories and the bad ones. Each distinctive in leaving a profound internal feeling within us all while helping shape the emotion in a human consciousness. How we look back on the existence we've had the privilege to explore thus far in our lives and have gotten to engage in or have been dispondent to fills a life's remembrance and gives the prominent meaning to our self view. A memory provides the mental conjuring of withheld moments no longer rendered in time but rather kept stored mentally, comfortably entered in the mind. We have them under lock and key occasionally to be open at a time of our choosing; at a time of perfect convenience and to remind  us where we've been and how far we've come. Memories connect the past to the present, connects what we've forgotten about and reminds us of meaningful ways of why it may resonate with our present and why in some cases it may have meaning towards our continuing evolution.


Friday, October 2, 2015

Music's role

Music, many would call it the unofficial sountrack to our lives some might simply view it as majestic ear candy warming up our heart with its hypnotic sounds, while others might view it as the soundtrack to life itself and then their are simply those who just may view it as beautiful and enchanting audible art.
Whatever the viewpoint music has a variety of prevailing meanings that we tend to attach on to it with a ton of prevailing uses as well.Music at times serves as the perfect compliment to our moods, can sculpt and cultivate our emotions or can just serve as the magic elixer to uplift our internal spirits, It can serve the purpose of being a nostolgic time travel machine and bring us back in time with a certain song or memorable adolescent childhood album; to a mental place or day that will forever be kept in one' heart and that still provides those fond memories that can be captured vividly though the right mental cognitive processing .
Music for us truly is the jack off all trades when it comes to helping change the dynamics of a view, constructing a necessarily mental reasuurement that everything will be okay or just using it as a  beneficial sidekick companion, that at that point in time can understand perfectly your emotional state of present well being. Artists from the past and current ones today understand the emotional roller coaster of life the same exact way we do with it's prevailing ups and downs and surprising twist and turns that it can apply to an affected mental psyche, it is then their job with that mental knowledge to relate to those emotional burdens and triumphs that many have experienced, and that they themselves may have gone through, and parley that to the many facing the same noticeable turmoil in their day to day experience. It is through an artist's voice, sound, and a musical melody that it has the magical power to play masterfully with our emotional range add in a specific time frame in which it gets released, a particular emotion and a memorable life moment and music now has left an imprint on a person's life with the space and allotted opportunity to continue to do just that as a person's life evolves.
Music has incredible power, superpowers no, but it does provide that wondrous escape to another mental destination, those soothing sounds that serve as the best stress relievers possible to the human spirit all while being able to take one's mind to new mental territories or forgotten about mental regions , thereby allowing the person who hears it to transport their inner spirits into a new personally instituted mental dimension set forth by the power of sound.
Music is our emotional compass as well, guided by our internal emotions, at times it serves as the perfect compliment to go along with a down trodden day, can be the wise teacher teaching us the importance of a needed life lesson, can sympathize with us through the sudden pain of heartache,or can play the perfect role as the well intention-ed friend that reminds us that it's okay to let our hair down and just have a good time. It is through these varying roles it understands us and we thereby fit it into the navigation of our life days and ongoing experienced journey.
whether it is a sad or happy song, a song to dance to or just a ballad you can share with a loved one music does a great job in wonderfully doing its part in an emotional sence of knowing what its audience wants and more importantly capturing what the audience needs. It provides us wisdom, purpose, hope, strength, happiness, and more often than not an escape from life's harsh met realities.
It is the one art-form that speaks to us the most because it is the one that understands us better than any other, mainly due to the fact it has been and still is created by those who have been through our same struggle, felt our same triumph, and experience the same wide range of our merited and exhibited emotions.     
Music's biggest power and biggest meaning is that it is the perfect reflection of us and who we are it is the journal to life itself perfectly spotlighting the emotions of the human spirit within it, all while being viewed through the lens of life. It is the reflection of a person existence the explanation that at times wonderfully defines the portrait of human truth and the description to who we represent ourselves as being, all while highlighting our attempt of decoding life mysterious reasoning through our already felt and still yet to be experienced life moments.












Tuesday, September 15, 2015

The king is back

Welcome back NFL, oh how we have missed you, us football fans and fantasy owners that is. After months of waiting the anticipation is finally over, the NFL season has arrived yet again for another season and as a result Sundays can commence in being exciting once again.
There is no denying that when it comes to sports in America it is the NFL that reigns supreme. No other sport has it's collective fan base eating out of the palm of their hands for yearning to watch
more of its sport in this country, than football currently does. Whether it is buying merchandise,watching the games, setting up your fantasy team, talking about the games to your colleagues at work, or children talking to friends at school about yesterday's game, it is pretty clear that when it comes to garnering buzz and generating attention football is king, and we wouldn't have it any other way.
Let's face it for us who are fans of the sport football has us wrapped around it's finger and not necessarily cause we want it to be that way but more so because we need it to be that way. We need that special event, that must see attraction that captivates us in a week in week out basis and Football serves as just that. It is the continuation of something that we just can't get enough of, in the same way the latest movie in a trilogy is or the continuation of a book series from a popular author is as well, we desperately yearn to see it pick up right where it left off. Through that wait  the anticipation for yet another enthralling season is at it's peak, with fans clamoring to get to their TV sets to see just how it unfolds.
In the same way we yearn to see the latest talked about and exciting movie or the next great episode in a wildly popular TV series, The NFL has simply become can't miss television. We love the NFL but honestly how can we help but not to.  There is a variety of reasons to watch the NFL product  and why football captivates us so highly,  whether it's to see if a champion can defend their crowd, to find out which new team will rise from the ashes and perch themselves among the elite, to impressively take witness to which quarterback will take that next step as they continue to climb up the ranks among the elite of the sport or just whether you made the correct choices with your fantasy picks this season. There is a variety of reasons that the NFL has us glued to our TV screens and it's unfolding drama, and why we are way too invested to simply just not watch anymore.
We need the NFL just as much as the NFL needs us, we crave for it's exciting brand of action and its competitive battles and it craves our attention and money, It is a give and take relationship that goes both ways, a relationship between us and the sport that has made it the most popular one in America. We are compelled by the great athletes, the spectacular plays, the rising stars, our teams success, potential comebacks, and both the player and team improvements made from one year to the next. The NFl has left us under its spell and right now it is way too enticing for us to want to break it out of it. The truth however is that its hard to blame any of us for being fans in large part to the quality of the games,how the NFL perfectly orchastrates their exposure, and their buzz through commercials and a week long wait, that enables a fans interest to reach a crescendo by the time game time hits, all to wonderfully be fulfilled for a couple of glorious days of competitive football action, and to restart all over again the following week.
 The strength of the sport is their great ability to leave us wanting more all while giving us a so much to take in and enjoy during each season. Unlike baseball and basketball which tend to give us more games than we would want or tends to drag on for way too long, football is the perfect length where it's not too short and not too long, all as it succeeds in captivating us with it's presentation,suspense, and fast paced competitive action.
Does The NFL have it's fair share of problems behind the scenes? yes it does and there is absolutely no denying that fact, that however is not why we watch, it the game's graceful visual beauty witnessed through its violence, the anticipation of it's continuing story being played out right before our eyes, the answering of our speculation for our teams potential success, and the fun filled ride we know it will take us on in the search of a crowned champion that has us mesmerized and hooked on its product and leaves us wanting more year in and year out. As yet another season has come it is these compelling components that will leave us transfixed on its continuing saga all while leaving us engaged in its visual drama right down to it's final conclusion.






Tuesday, September 8, 2015

our differences equal our connection

Differences, what makes the world wonderful and special is precisely that. Whether it's a difference in ethnicity, race, culture, age, color and gender all have been necessary in defining not only human beings but life itself. Each one of us is different from one another in one way shape or form, we like different things from music, to movies, to books, to TV, we all have different dreams we wish to accomplish and we vary from one another in lifestyle, based off of how we choose to live to our lives.
We as people are designed to be different just as much as we are designed in many ways to be similar. It is those differences however that make us understand one another better to view one another in a brighter light and to grow as people from accepting those differences, and being able to respect it as well. Through one's respect for someone being different you accept them shining in their own light, thereby allowing others to shine beautifully in their own way as well.
understanding one's unique make-up representing who they are is up to us to create and respect and once we can do just that, we can go on from there to have an appreciation for what person in essence represents. We have the power to uplift others worthy sense of self, and grow as people as a result of doing that, as seeing the beauty in someone difference helps all of us see the beauty in other peoples differences as well.The United States of America symbolizes all people from all walks of life coming to one country and benefiting it through their presence, culture, language and ethnicity. We are connected through each race, culture and distinct difference that each one of those countries beneficially provides us. Through the presence of those who are different we learn, we adapt, we grow, we assimilate to others and their representative nature.
This in my opinion is what makes America as a whole so special and so attractive as a destination to embark upon and to stay in. It is our acceptance and our understanding of others no matter their appearance or culture or religion or sexual orientation that helps further distinguish America as a great country that is very much worthy of its reputation and praise. ONe person difference from us is not meant to be as much loved or hated as it is meant to be respected where within the confines of that respect can hopefully grow a civil appreciated understanding of the internal makeup of the different elements of what can make a person who they are in their met representation.

It is not our job to have the answer towards who someone is or whythe result of their visual distinction lives up to our own held requirements, but rather if their self expression lives up to their yet to be finished definition towards who they wish to conclusively represent themselves as. If we as human beings are walking representation of god's art then it should probably be left up to himto be able to merrit the proper distinc oppinion of what that valued artwork overall worth truly signifies. We as people can only appreciate the various differences that he created us with, and once we can understand that we can start to understand why each of us serve as a beautiful wonder waiting to be explored.



Friday, September 4, 2015

Hope will always be a key

What is hope? How do we hold on it? These questions are prevalent for every living soul walking the face of the earth today. Hope in definition is defined by a feeling of expectation and desire for a certain thing to happen. Inside of us we all hold some semblance of hope, some in a smaller context and others do so on a much larger scale. Whatever the size,we use it as the fuel for our distinction, the guide for our desired life journey, the helpful push to our dreams conquest, and most importantly as the internal spiritual calling to get us through tough times. Certain distinct circumstances may bring about this useful need for it's power. through tough times hope uplifts us, aid us, encourages us, and often times benefits us in any en devour we wish to accomplish. It helps us through any saddened mood we internally hold and .helps spark the self positivity we may for the moment have missing within us. Hope is never magically set as it has to be generated to be successfully garnered from within and hopefully if were lucky enough it can be sparked for us through others in our lives, or in the specific way we see others live theirs.
The fashion in which we attain it is less important than the overall significance of keeping its important meaning within us to begin with, which leads to my second question how do we hold on to it. That can be a rather difficult question to answer, many may have an easier time keeping a strong and consistent postive hope stached in their heart and minds, all while for others this can a very difficult task and can be rather challenging with life's consistent nature of mixing the good with the bad into the fabric of our ongoing lives.
Facing obstacles can breed frustration, that apparent frustration then quietly can proceed to culminate gradually into stress, stress can then lead into sadness, and its sustained length may at times lead into depression.It is the hope that we attach to our circumstances however that lift us out of our rut, makes us think better of our circumstance, provides us with a cherished thought out of our situations improvement, shining a light into our prevalent darkness which can be the theoretical helping hand to get us back up on our feet yet again.
The best way I can answer this question is to simply ask another, Is the hope of a positive change important and necessary enough for you to want to keep it? If it is then you as a person will find the neccesariry way to somehow find it and use it accordingly, and once found will increase the importance of your yearning to store it within yourself, to help you whenever needed most. As people we often times are led through life by our emotions the feelings that we instantly get at a given moment. The glorious moments provide an exuberant and exhilerating feeling that doesn't at all need the effectiveness of hope, It is the grim days and sometimes the painful ones however that require it the most, and when it is both beneficial and crucial to our overall emotional well being. through the ups and down, life's twists and turns it is through hope that we stay afloat, keep our heads above water and have the necessary tool to carry on. Life at times can certainly be a bare to get through it can test us right to our very core all while trying in a unique way to find what were made of, yet it is through hope that inate belief turned on within us that catapults our desire to push forth, to seek the improvement we so desperately crave to have for the benefit our emotional mood and views at that presice and distinc moment.
Hope is the cure that helps heal us the medicine from the sickness of life's harsh realities and our navagational compus through the bad and difficult all the way to the good and mentally achievable. 
We give it the power it warrants, the meaning to it's important definition  as it guides us with a purposeful distinction waiting to be decoded in time, we just have to give it the green light and let it help guide us through the navigational journey of life.